RESCUE YOUR LOVE LIFE(挽救你的爱情)
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作者： Henry Cloud著
出 版 社： Oversea Publishing House
出版时间： 2005-9-1字数：版次：页数： 308印刷时间： 2005/09/01开本： 16开印次： 1纸张： 胶版纸I S B N ： 9781591453468包装： 平装内容简介
Reconnecting with your mate is the goal of this uneven guide by Cloud and Townsend， the authors of the million-selling Boundaries series on relationships。 Here， they offer a comprehensive look at virtually every way a marriage can disconnect。 They also provide tested and successful solutions to these problems as they address issues such as unreasonable expectations， personality differences and problems with communication， trust， sex and conflict resolution。 Their advice ranges from the obvious—“Don’t criticize or put down your mate”—to seasoned counsel stemming from a deep understanding of how marriages really work（such as when they conclude that couples “must go through reality to get to love”）。 The book is refreshingly honest in its push to get couples to examine themselves closely and pinpoint problems， as well as create appropriate solutions。 Its comprehensiveness， however， is also its weakness。 Skimming the surface of the huge topic of marriage makes for limited ability to plumb the depths of specific problems and solutions。 While this is an excellent primer for discovering marriage-ending troubles and taking beginning steps toward reconnecting， the deep work of repair must be found elsewhere， perhaps in the workbook that will be published simultaneously。（Sept.）
Copyright Reed Business Information， a division of Reed Elsevier Inc。 All rights reserved。 --This text refers to the Hardcover edition。
目录
Acknowledgments
Read This First
Suggestions for Small Group Leaders
“My Lover Should make Some Changes”
。Change Yourself,Not Your Lover
。Love Grows When Dependency Goes
。But I’m NOt the Immature One
。You Make Me Crazy
。One Person Can’t Change Everything，But
“My Lover Should Make Me Happy”
。The Real Scoop About H appiness
。Are They Needs or Desires?
。Stop Looking for Your Other Half
。Self-Denial?You’re Joking，Right?
。Lopsided Relationships Take On Water
“My Lover Should Be Perfect for me”
。There Are No Perfect 10s
。Pour On the Grace
。Sometimes Your Lover Needs a Nudge
。 Vive les Differences
。Getting to the Heart of Feelings
“My Lover Should Never Hurt Me”
。Hurt Happens，But You Can Handle It
。Past Hurts Present Problems
。Accepting Without Approving
。Lovers Can Bring Out the Worst in Each 0ther
。Resist the Temptation to Cut and Run
“My Lover Should Read My Mind”
。Don’t Hide Your Feelings
。Choose to Face Reality
。Are You Saying What You Really Mean?
。There’s More to Listening than Hearing
。Common Communication Stoppers
“My lover and i should Never Fight”
“My lover should trust me without question”
“My lover should be perfect at sex”
