HOW 2 MAKE ANYONE FALL IN LOVE(如何让你成为万人迷？)
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作者： LEIL LOWNDES 著
出 版 社： McGraw-Hill
出版时间： 1995-12-1字数：版次： 1页数： 318印刷时间： 1997/09/01开本：印次： 1纸张： 胶版纸I S B N ： 9780809229895包装： 平装内容简介
Hard to believe anything other than luck and maybe fate, never mind a book, can make someone fall in love with you, but oddly enough, Leil Lowndes seems to offer the advice that can do just that in How to Make Anyone Fall in Love with You. The sensation of falling in love comes from a chemical secreted by the nervous system, phenylethylamine (or PEA, as Lowndes calls it, as in "Scientists tell us only PEA-brained people fall in Love"), and the trick is to trigger the manufacture of PEA in your potential love partner, giving him or her the sensation of being in love. Lowndes offers 85 techniques for "Hunters and Huntresses" to capture their "Quarry." Much of what the book offers is common sense--the power of eye contact and compliments--but it's presented in a new way and with such detail that it seems that it can't help but work.
Following some of her advice will have you treading that fine line between nice and obsequious, and at times, this book may sound offensive to some, advising the reader to play what may sound like games. Lowndes is aware of this, and she offers some caveats, but still it is hard to get past advice such as, "Show him you're smart, but remember--not too smart" or "Watch your Quarry's reactions to outside stimuli, then show the same emotions." In all fairness, Lowndes doesn't play favorites: her advice to men and women can be equally appalling. Yet, the relaxed style of this book, presenting solid wisdom with a bit of scientific support, makes this book appealing, and, who knows, maybe it will make you more appealing, too! --Jenny Brown
作者简介
Leil Lowndes inrernationally recognized communications expert is also the author of the top-selling How to Talk to Anybody About Anything Based in New York City she has ilectured at dozens of universities and colleges and has appeated on hundteds of television and tadio ptogtams.
目录
1 Anyone?Yes Practically Anyone
2 What Makes People Fall in Love?
3 The Physical Side of Falling in Love
4 Where Are All the Good Men and Women?
5 Does Love at First Sight Exist?
PART ONE:FIRST IMPRESSIONS
6 How to Make a Dynamite First Impression
7 How to Ingite Love at First Sight
8 Your First Approach
9 Your First Body Language
10 Your First Conversation
11 Your First Date
PART TWO:SIMILAR CHARACTER COMPLEMENTARY NEEDS
12 Its You and Me Baby Alone Against This Masd Mad World
13 How to Establish Subconcious Similarity
14 How to Establish Conscious Similarity
15 How to Establish Complementary Needs
PART THREE:EGO How Do You Love Me?Let Me Count the Ways
16 The World Revolves Around You My Quarry
17 Step One:Silent Praise
18 Step Two:Empathy
19 Step Three:Admiration
20 Step Four:The Implied Compliment
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PART FOUR:EQUITY The WIIFM Principle of Love
PART FIVE:EARLY-DATE GENDER-MENDERS Is Threr Love After Eden?
PART SIX:r FOR SEX How to Turn on the Sexual Electricity
Afterword
Notes
About the Author
