可爱女孩成年了Mean Girls Grown Up
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作者： Cheryl Dellasega, PhD 著
出 版 社： Oversea Publishing House
出版时间： 2007-10-1字数：版次： 1页数： 246印刷时间： 2007/10/01开本： 16开印次： 1纸张： 胶版纸I S B N ： 9780470168752包装： 平装编辑推荐
作者简介：Cheryl Dellasega, Ph.D., is a professor in the College of Medicine and the Department of Humanities at Pennsylvania State University. She is the author of Forced to Be Family, Surviving Ophelia, Girl Wars, and The Starving Family.
内容简介
Almost every woman has experienced bullying. Whether her role was that of victim, aggressor, or bystander, the pain of relational aggression (female bullying) lasts long after the incident has passed. In Mean Girls Grown Up, Cheryl Dellasega explores why women are often their own worst enemies, offering practical advice for a variety of situations. Drawing upon extensive research and interviews, she shares real-life stories from women as well as the knowledge of experts who have helped women overcome the negative effects of aggression. Readers will hear how adult women can be just as vicious as their younger counterparts, learn strategies for dealing with adult bullies, how to avoid being involved in relational aggression, and more. Dellasega outlines how women can change their behavior successfully by shifting away from aggression and embracing a spirit of cooperation in interactions with others.
目录
Acknowledgments
Introduction
Part One: Relational Aggression 201: The Who,What, and Why of RA
1 All Grown Up and Ready to Sting: Adult Female Aggression
2 Why Women Aren’t More Like Men
3 Big Bullies and Other Aggressive Types: The Queen Bee
4 From Mild to Bad and In Between: The Middle Bee
5 Blindsided, Backstabbed, and Bruised: The Afraid-to-Bee
6 Weapons of Choice
Part Two: Our Own Worst Enemies: Aggression at Work, at Home, and at Play
7 Women at Work
8 Sharing Space: Ages and Stages of Aggression
9 Forced to Be Family: The Good, the Bad, and the Very Ugly of Female In-Laws
10 Mrs Popularity and the Mom Clique
11 Relational Aggression Where You Least Expect It
Part Three: Recognize, Revise, and Internalize: Changing the RA Way of Life
12 Who Are You in the Bee Dynamic?: A Relational Aggression Assessment
13 Healing Residual Relation Aggression: Overcoming the Past
14 The Power of Forgiveness
15 The Won’t Bee
16 A New Relational You
17 Don’t Stop with Yourself
APPENDIX A: Communication That Counts: Connecting through Words
APPENDIX B: Talking to Yourself in Ways That Help
APPENDIX C: Netiquette Tips
APPENDIX D: Mentoring Resources
References
Index