my opinion about family discipline

About the topic,different people may hold different opinions.some people feel that it is “spare the rod ,spoil the child”about teaching children,others think we must obey the child’s idea everything,however,I think that all parents should try to sit down and listen to your children’s speeking carefully,and reason with your children. As you know,everyone has his own idea,due to generation gap,parents can’t communicate with their children completely,So I don’t at all agree with beating a child,we should often care about our children,and understand their opinion,we must often communicate with your children,and exchange your idea,you must make your children to obey by using reason,,but I don’t think that I never hit my child,sometimes we must spank our children,a quick,short smack on the buttocks is nice way,It makes your childtren to produce fear and remembers it still ever. When your child rebel your idea,maybe your child is right,you should ask it clear,for example,my parents still want me to go to home on time everyday,but someday several year ago,i went to home very late,my father was worry about me,while i went my home,he asked for me why did i go to home late,i said that the lesson was deleyed,next day,I still went to home more later,My father was very angry,he wanted to hit me very heavy,but my mother stopped him to smack me,by talking each other,finally my parents knew all things which my classmate was ill for several days,and I went to her home to help her to remediate lesson.by the thing ,I tell every parents that children also have their own secrets,when your child is in breach of your family discipline, you must ask for it clear,don’ directly hit child,you should respect their right.